To explain, the ce and csn pins can be on any digital pins, so most examples you see are different, whatever the author chose. In my case I chose 9 for ce and 10 for csn, to keep all the pins adjacent.
This was an unfortunate choice, as when we discovered the RF-Nano, it was the opposite, 10 for ce and 9 for csn. I strongly suggest we stick with the RF-Nano convention, but I'd already made several radios by then, hence the two options in the code. I will remove the 'old' reference.
That diagram above is in the RF-Nano order Max, CE on 10 and CSN on 9. the opposite of how I set up the very original project. For an RF-Nano it has to be this way, its hard wired, so to create an instance use:
RF24 radio(10,9); // ce, csn
I would use this for any new builds, but I still have four radios with
RF24 radio(9,10); // ce, csn
Crucially of course the wiring has to match the code, in the case of the RF-Nano its already wired,
but to update my working car radios to 'RF-Nano order' means dismantling and rewiring.
Getting ce and csn mixed up does no harm, it wont break anything

A bit of an update, two things:
The OS was a bit of a temporary installation, in fact the NRF+PA module was just wedged in place for the tests, but just this morning I got around to fitting it properly - and discovered something - it doesnt like the brass SMA connector to be grounded to the metal case. I tried insulated and grounded several times to confirm this, because its not what you'd expect. Insulated its fine, but when grounded I saw significant packet losses. This suggests that whilst the brass RF output connector is DC connected to ground, from an RF perspective its not a perfectly unbalanced feed as it theoretically should be. These things are not a problem once you know, so its now temporarily mounted through a plastic spacer and its fine. So its still not permanent! I'd not seen this peculiarity on the Multiplex Pico as its a plastic case.
Something to remember.
The other thing is I had one receiver lock up when running from the same supply as a noisy brushed DC motor, and I'm almost sure its the NRF that locks rather than the 328P, they do seem to be very sensitive to power supply variations/noise. So I've added 100uF and a 100nf in parallel across the RF-Nano power supply, actually on the receiver. This is whats recommended for the NRF anyway and isnt a surprise, and after repeatedly subjecting it to lots of electrical noise I cant get it to do it again so I believe thats sorted. All my PIC stuff has a watchdog timer, I'll look into adding one here too, though resetting the 328P wont reset the NRF24 so a WDT may not be of any benefit.
Cheers
Phil